3 September 2023 (Update) The result of our review: turned out to be an insufficient dating website. review
  • Fake Chat Scam

  • Fake Operator

  • Fake Profiles

  • Unlikely to meet

  • Negative comments

  • Very expensive

Report for review looks like a great online dating portal. But, the reputation of the site on the internet is not good at all. We also checked the terms and conditions of the site. There we found out that the portal is for entertainment only. Of course, entertainment does not sound too bad. However, it is just another way to note a fake chat.

We also read about costs that will occur after the registration. So, a free registration is a more misleading thing than a piece of real information. The user will have to pay for every sent message. Costs will occur for credits which will be topped up automatically. That does not seem to be a good thing on an entertainment site. The operator of the portal is VioletDates.

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Details on the review offers free registration. On the landing page, we read that this is a great choice for people who are looking for online social communication. Now, that sounds nice, but it does not sound like the normal offer of an online dating website.

First research on the internet

Because of that, we did some more research on the internet. There we found a few negative reports about the portal. In Regard to the information on the web, this site is a cheeky scam with a fake chat. Fake operators seem to control the profiles in the members´ pool. Those profiles seem to be a fake and show fictional people. So, the chance to find a match might be good. But that match will be a fake profile, with which a date in real-life is impossible. Now, that is what the former users claim on the internet.

We took some afford and checked the terms and conditions. There we found some hints that this site really is a cheeky rip off.

Excerpt from the Terms & Conditions (as of 29/01/2021)

Any statement that may be posted on the Service is for informational and entertainment purposes only and is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional financial, medical, legal, or other advice.

Automatic top-up for your entertainment

The operator of the online dating website is the VioletDates. That company is located in Limassol, Cyprus. That location seems to be a bit suspicious for a dating site in Australia. Also, Cyprus is an often-chosen location for scam operators that run dating sites with a subscription trap. Now, in the terms and conditions, we read about an automatic top-up. Costs will occur for credits which are needed to send messages. That messages seem to reach fake operators only.

We have a look at the terms and conditions

The operator of the site notes in the terms and conditions that this site is for entertainment only. Also, on the landing page, it is noted that this website does only offer online social communications. There is nothing mentioned meeting a person or finding a real match. We assume that this site, a cheeky fake chat. Plus, the payment will be topped-up automatically if the user does not stop it. That option is offered in the profile settings. However, we assume that this site is not a save or good choice.

The conclusion from our review is for entertainment purpose only. That is an often-used synonym for a fake chat. We assume that the profiles on the site are fake and show fictional people. Fake operators manage the fake profiles and entice the user to a chat for which they will have to pay for. Costs will occur for credits which will be topped-up automatically. That sounds like a trap to us as well.

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  1. Gavin 7th November 2022 at 1:22 pm

    Guys, please be assured 100% that Violet dates is a total rip off fraudulent web site . They reeled me in lock ,stock and smoking barrels. Whoever is answering you posing as who you think they are, can be so convincing that they are really growing on you and falling for all your sweet talk that your inner sense radar switches off. Please, dont get conned like I did. Here is my closing text message to one after spending £400 od pounds on messaging. lol, Karma has a wonderful way of punishing scammers, you usually always finally end up in the jail for fraud and your Gods never accept you when its there time to die. Well done with your theatrical stance, you must be very desparate in life to actually carry out an act like this to make a living ! When your team finally gets busted for your fraudulent endevours and you are behind bars in jail for extorting money by stealing the identities of various people and posing as available dates, remember me. I’ll be the one smiling in the public gallery of the courtroom, It will be my time to laugh.

  2. James 29th October 2022 at 4:42 pm

    All these comments confirm my suspicions that this is a bonafide internet chat scam website! Most likely the probability that you’ll get to meet in person the lady you’re communicating with are zero to none. I’m glad that I didn’t spend any money chatting or buying credits. They say that “if it seems too good to be true, it probably is”.

  3. MacNorthski 16th August 2022 at 4:53 am

    Nothing but HUGE scammers. None of these woman are real and on the site. They use “Bots” to message and text back. I enjoy when I get repeated messages across several profiles. They have a lot os Eastern Block woman, in a boiler room, replying and coaxing you in. Differences in spelling and terminology are humorous. Based out of a building in Cypress and owned by a scamming couple in USA. They own many websites of this nature. Pictures and videos are taken from model submissions, Instagram, facebook, tiktok, etc… I love it when they send video to show you there REAL Love, as they ask for you to buy Jewellry and new cellphones. The Majority of these thieves are out of Russia. None are doctors or professionals. When they get caught, in their scams, they deny everything and refund nothing. Just call your credit card company and they will back charge these thieves. I laughed when one of them claimed she was crying and living in Kyiv.

  4. David 3rd July 2022 at 12:39 pm

    Total scam. Many x playboi pets just to get you on the site but when I asked 1 on a different site if she was the same girl I talked to on Violetdates she said no she didn’t have an account there. Took screenshots of her stating this and screenshots of her other profile and lodged a complaint and full refund. As always these sites come up with excuses. Raluca Alexandria I would stay away from that profile and even the one who goes by Anna otherwise known as Anya sugar. They are a bunch of scammers that work together.

  5. wayne 26th June 2022 at 9:23 am

    I knI absolutely know all of the above negative comments to be true. I’ve been on these and lots of other Late, Asian and European sites for around a year and a half and have never paid any of them a dime. Only used their free credits. I would get the exact same message from different women all the time on all sites AND would get messages from them when they weren’t even online! How phone is that!
    ow all of the above comments to be true

  6. Joe Crawmer 30th May 2022 at 12:49 pm

    What do you know about Amourfeel dating site?? I think it’s a scam too!! One girl I’ve been messagi won’t answer a lot of my questions.

  7. Dave 23rd April 2022 at 10:43 pm

    For me it started with Asian Melodies, VioletDates, OrchidRomance and then La-Date. They are all scammer sites using model photos but you are not talking to the woman. I keep getting messages from women in the Ukraine that you know are there in this war with Russia. Mot one woman would accept calling me on the phone, they all insisted that you chat on their bogus site for money. These sites should be shut down. I did not pay for any credits, just used free chat and they keep you talking until you run out of free credits.

  8. mrmoney 4th April 2022 at 12:05 pm

    I think Alexandra is gorgeous but never paid any money only messaged her for free but lads use your brains those women are too gorgeous to be single anyone would no that

  9. Gordon 1st April 2022 at 12:46 pm

    This is a very fake site and when complain they have all the nice things to say but they have no action to make a paying client to treat them with respect or any compensation as all good business do. I believe that there free or fake salesforce gets a portion of the money’s the man spends so they use sexual tactics to keep men on the site and spending money. This is total BS money grabbing zero integrity operation

  10. wes 31st January 2022 at 2:36 pm

    wes it is so true I talk with only 1 woman for 11 months and all of a sudden ,the site suspended me after we talked about meeting, and still had 388 credits left and now wont answer back what a scam and I really thought she loved me as i did her , she even had my tell. # and didnt call so seems fake!

  11. Shaun Wright 27th January 2022 at 7:13 pm

    Yep…. Pure Rip-off…. The funny thing was though I’d gotten to like one of the women on it. Now I have mixed thoughts.
    Also something that may seem unrelated? But the Damage that this site can do! ”I’d recently only months previous was using this website. It was after one morning I woken up and was in this Care Home? Then I’d found out that my Mother Had died a year previously? Which I don’t recall? But had to be put in Hospital? Which I don’t recall? Imagine me now in a fake chatroom? This has furthermore devastated me. The Money Yes…. But more so the complete waste of my time. In the most traumatic time of my life….

  12. GAVIN THOMSON 24th January 2022 at 7:57 pm

    Thank You for your comments , i was getting suspicious as the credits just kept running out and they would ask for more money ,im glad i looked up this site as it had become obvious to me that this was a scam,

  13. Mark 31st December 2021 at 9:47 am

    Also, violetdates was introduced to me by another crooked company calling itself That too is a rip off. I should have suspected why would a dating site recommend another unless they are one in the same of in cahoots with each other.

  14. Mark 31st December 2021 at 9:42 am


  15. Allan van Dijk 4th December 2021 at 6:31 am

    No fool like an old fool……this cost me hundreds of pounds….its a scam…of the highist order….stay away…

  16. J E BROWN 30th November 2021 at 6:16 pm

    I feel like a fool My gut feeling was this was a fake site. I should have listened
    3 times I thought I had met my match, after endless chats and viewing videos to build up my credits to gain members contacts
    2 just stopped mail to them over the first week the 3rd said she needed time and don’t write… I feel terrible wasting so much money on this site. It took a while for the truth to sink in as I wanted a genuine partner. After alot of heart ache and disappointment I canceled my membership. I have felt so happy now, I wish Id done it sooner.

  17. David Tripoda 26th November 2021 at 1:43 am

    Yes it’s a newer version of 976 talk dirty to me . Everything is fake . They keep the conversation going just so you buy more credits.

  18. Armando Sabas-Rojas 11th November 2021 at 9:39 am

    I agree. I have had dealings with that Olga, blonde, 32, she is VERY evil. She tells you she loves you and draws the conversation out to make you spend money, then acts hurt if you don’t talk to her. She also asked me for money stating her son was ill. TOTAL SCAM!!

  19. Michael Smirnoff 11th November 2021 at 9:34 am

    Definitely a scam. The girl, Olga, (#18512641) constantly asked me for pictures of my dick, when I began talking to her less she attempted to blackmail me with my own pictures. This site is NOTHING but a money grab and the owners all belong in jail.

  20. glh 7th October 2021 at 10:04 am

    I believe that the site is paying all these gals to keep you on the phone, open videos and even when you reach the “3,000 credits” the gals don’t want to go to their personal emails as they won’t get paid anymore.

  21. glh 7th October 2021 at 10:01 am

    This site DOUBLE charges you for charging each time you view a photo or video and their database can show this

  22. Donald W Brown 4th September 2021 at 7:46 am

    I was an old fool
    Should have checked out the link before..

  23. Nev 30th August 2021 at 2:45 pm

    AGREE – this is a scam site. I go onto the site around 10:00 Am my time – which is 9 hours behind in the Ukraine – and I get all these messages and emails for ladies who ‘have visited ‘ my profile 2 minutes ago and then a message arrives that they send ??? Never get a straight answer from any questions I ask. All replies are the same in many cases- not relevant to the question. Believe they are manufactured by the operators of this site. When I question it with the customer support people – they say “‘woman are entitled to be up at 3 AM – on the site – if they so wish”” – Yeah right.

  24. Donald 30th August 2021 at 7:38 am

    Violet date the woman called Olga I’d 55366864 is a is a pony a scam she plays guys and then let him go so tell him she loves him and everything else and then whom she don’t want to talk to you anymore she makes up things she is a person be a restaurant representative but I think she’s nothing but a prostitute I think she just likes to leave guys on and make them feel like s*** so please if you do anything about this. Please do not talk to her you’ll be in trouble if you

  25. Jay Jones 5th May 2021 at 7:43 am

    violet dates is a scam. you start a chat with a supposed potential date and you get more and more involved until you think they are the real thing. The girls manipulate the conversation to extend the time so you have to continue to pay more. They throw enticing videos and pictures promising the next one will be even better. When you are about our out of credit they will send you an email with pictures or videos that cost many credits to open. I think they buy photos from girls or hire various girls to give them assorted pictures and /or play the person always manipulating for more time. If you make any attempt to set up contact outside the site they block it, email addresses, addresses, phone numbers, The girls will act like they don’t know why the data doesn’t come through. They have some very fetching attractive women on their site. But it is all fake. Just a phony internet chat scam.

  26. Peter Downing 16th April 2021 at 8:55 am

    What if they show actual videos of themselves? Some of these women I’ve seen elsewhere on the internet.

  27. Matthew Maracle 14th March 2021 at 4:53 am

    Also asking for passport info is a huge red flag.

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